Serial: Dil Mil Gaye (Dill Mill Gayye)
Channel : Star One
Friday, November 27
Dill Mill Gayye Nov 27 Episode
EID MUBARAK !!
hello all .
well i saw da blog all empty empty so i thought y not to add a new post .
its just dat i wanted to wish u all a very very
****** HAPPY EID ******
MAY DIS EID BRINGS ALL DA JOY , LAUGHTER , FUN AND HAPPINESS TO ALL OF U AND UR FAMILIES . (Ameen)!!
Eid is coming, I jus can not w8
Time 2 get ready and CELEBRATE!
Busy buying presnts 4 relatives
they just can not w8
Remember one thing
On this day never fight
Jus be happy
SO HAPPY EID CELEBRATIONS!
(I kno dat poem is soo silly , no rhyming words , but pls cooperate . i didnt had time so just compromise wid dis one ).
enjoy your eid guys !!
Wid loads of luv ,
JIYA ,
KaSh ki Diwani.
Part 1: Love Love Love
charector skech
armaan
25 yrs old succesfull bisineess man have everything in life and loves ridhima madly but he knews that she used to love abhi so he was silent lover bt now he is happy as his marriage will be arranged with ridhima
he loves rahul muskaan and his dada jai mallik there mom is dead last five yrs
ridhima.25 yrs old used to be very lively and chereful girl when abhi was there in her life bt something happens which has taken her smile from her she still loves abhi bt will be getting married to armaan . now helping her father in her business
rahul
elder brother of armaan happily married with muskaan they have love marriage
muskaan
wife and bhabhi of armaan happily married with rahul and love him and armaan to the core
atul
freind and bussiness partner of armaan and rahul dont believe in marriages bt beleive in love he feels marriages take away freedom u have
anjali: madly in love with atul bt know that he dont beleive in marriage and dont know what her future holds in she is best freiend of ridhima also know everything about her past
abhi
usd to be ridhima ex fiance now he is not there the eason u will know later
now guys honest opinion should i carry with this ff or not waiting for response
sasnk
succeful businees man and father of only daugter ridhima who just want to see her happy again
padma
mother of ridhima
karan ki dewani mithila
Part 1
GUPTA MANSION
We see a girl sleeping she is beautiful bt it seems she is not happy with life her face looks dul and pale as her mother enter the room and remove the curtains and girlhids her face from the pillow just to prevent the sunligt affecting her
Guess right girl is ridhima and mother is padma
Padma: beta sade saath hogaye ab uthja bache kitni der soyegi
Ridhima: maa thode der aur waise bhi aaj office main 2 baje ke baad jana hai
Padma:aur thode hi din bache hai aram se soja sasural jane ke baad yeh sab nahi chalega
Ridhima: at once get up from bed with jerk maa abhi to sirf baat chal rahi hai
Padma:nahi beta subah hi phone aya tha jai bhasaheb ka armaan ne rishtey ke liye haan kar di hai
Ridhima was shocked kyaaa
Flaskback
Armaan had come to meet ridhima to see her as jaimalik and sasnk gupta wanted moreover armaan also wanted
As soon as armaan went to her room he can smell her fragnance which make him at once happy and delighted he was dressed in white t shirt with blue jeans looking hansome and killing as ever
He sat on the sofa waiting for ridhima to come out of washroom as she came wearing normal jeans and t shirt (she weares western much in ff) she was looking simple thouth beautiful as armaan saw her he lost again on her beautiful just only one word came from his mouth which was whisper beautiful his blue eyes was constantly gazing on her ridhima was getting consiouse of the gaze and started getting nervous as coming near him armaan understood and mentally kick himself loosing again on her beauty
He mentally make a not to himself not to losse on her atleast now . wanting to comeback from this awward situation he just tell her
Armaan: hi I am armaan armaan mallik
Ridhima: sat beside him I am ridhima
Armaan: so
Ridhima: isse pehle tum aage bado mujhe tumare saath kuch battein clear karni hai
Armaan: interrupting yehi tum abhi se pyar karti thi
Ridhima: was shocked hw he knew this bt then tell karthi thi nahi karti hoon
Armaan was bit disappointed hearing that par ab to who
Ridhima: haan main janti who ab yaha nahi hai par mere dil main who ab bhi hai par tumhe kaise pata I am sure dad ne tumhe kuch nahi bataya
Armaan: tumne sach main abhi tak mujhe nahi pehchana
Ridhima: nahi kya hum pehle bhi mil chuke hai
Armaan: just smile showing his dimples tumhe yaad nahi colledge main jisse tum aur abhi champu keh kar bulate the
(in colledge armaan was very studios types having big glass specks and always having oily hair can imagine suriji attire)
Ridhima: for once forget everything and just started laughjing
Armaan was lost one her charms yet again
Ridhima: holding her stomach don’t tell me tum wahi champu ho jo mere aur abhi kea age peche rehte the colldge main hahaha jisse bike chalane main daar lagta tha par padhayi main hamesah aage hahaha
Armaan: haan main wahi hoon
Ridhima: seeing his serious tone sorry mera mazak udhane ka koi irada nahi tha I am sorry mujhe to bas who sab yaad aagaya par tum achanak itne badal kaise gaye
Armaan: bas kyun ki is duniyan main kamyab hone ke liye aap kaise dekte hai who bhi important hai
Ridhima: who to hai and u are looking gud also
Armaan: for once felt proud and happy thanks
Ridhima: I guess tab to tumhe pata hi hoga main aur abhi colledge main kitne close the kyat um phir bhi mujhse
Armaan thiking yeh mujhe nahi pata hoga to kisse pata hoga and trying to tell something
Meanwhile padma enter the room
Padmacoming: armaan beta tumare office se phone aya hai koi urgent kaam hai
Armaan: ok aunty mujhe ab chalna chaiye bye ridhima nice meeting u
Ridhima: bye
After armaan went ridhima was relaxed thank god use to mere aur abhi ke barrein main sab pata hai kitni baar usne mujhe kiss karte hue ya uske saath romance karte hue degha hoga who is shadi ke liye kabhie haan nahi kahega thankg god
Present
Padma: kya hua beta kya sochne lag gayi itni tensed kyun hai tune hi to kaha tha who acha hai
Ridhima: haan maa par mujhe laga tha who is shadi ke liye kabhie haan nahi karega use mere aur abhi
Padma: phir abhi kitni baar kaha hai ridhu use bhul ja tumne uske barrein main bataya hi kyun tere papa ne kya kaha tha yeh to shukr hai armaan ne phir bhi
Ridhima: ma maine use kuch nahi batya use pehle se hi sab pata tha who humare colledge main hi tha phir bhi usne shadi ke liye
Padma: dekh beta humne tumhe jitna time dena tha de diya abhi ko bhulne ke liye pechle teen saal se hum teri hi baat mainte aaye hai par abhi nahi beta tu khud hi soch tere papa ko abhi abhi ek heart attack aya hai hum log sirf itna chathe hai kit um apni zindagi main aage bade aur armaan ko who sab pata hote hue bhi usne haan ki hai matlab use acha ladka tujhe mil hi nahi sakta itna assan nahi hota bache kisse aise insaan se shadi karna jab use pata ho ki who kisse aur se pyar karti thi ya karti hai
Ridhima: maa main yehi to janna chathi hoon ki usne aisa kyun kiya don’t worry mom is baar maine dada se wada kiya hai main is shadi se inkaar nahi karungi lekin mujhe yeh janne ka haq to hai na ki usne yeh sab jante hue bhi haan kyun ki mujhe use baat karni hi padegi
Mallik mansion
We see a guy doing pushups wearing his track pant and vest looking stunning and hot as ever get disturbed as hois cell phone rang bt seeing the number automatically smile came on his face he atonce stopthe push up turn a bit and pressing the button
Armaan: heloo breathing heavily
Ridhima: hi armaan tum thik to hona
Armaan was happy seeing him concerned nahi who workout kar raha tha isliye
Ridhima: tum who bhi karne lage
Armaan: haan
Ridhima: tum bahut badal gaye ho mujhe tumse luch poochna tha
Armaan: kya
Ridhima: tum to mere aur abhi ke barrein main sab jante the phir tumne haan mera matlab tum kisee
Armaan: maine haan isliye kaha because I like u
Ridhima: par
Armaan: dekho yeh battein yaha nahi ho sakti hum log kahi milte hai waise bhi aaj main 2 baje tak free hoon agar tum bhi
Ridhima: haan I also have half day
Armaan: gud so we sould meet at pizzeria at 11 what say
Ridhima: ghar par mil nahi sakte
Armaan: kyun tumhe mujhpar bharosa nahi hai
Ridhima: aisa nahi hai
Armaan: then done 11 pizzeria bye tc
Cut the call so that she cannot protest
Ridhima thinking ajeeb ladka hai par milne main kya khrabi hai agar shadi karni hi hai to it is important that I make everything clear to him
Rahul muskaan
Muskaan was in kithen making breakfast rahul came from the door and just hug her from back tigtly kissing her sidecheeck
Rahul: gud morning jaan
Muskaan: morning baby bahut jaldi ho gayi aapki subah
Rahul: aaj hald day hai na jaan kissing her neck tightly
Muskaan closed her eyes for once coming to reality thinking agar abhi nahi roka to they would carry away
Muskaan: slightly pushing him kya kar rahe ho yeh bedroom nahi hai
Rahul: oh to bedroom hone se I can do anything winking
Muskaan:blushing tum thakte nahi na bas chance chaiye har waqt
Rahul:jab biwi aapke jaise ho to kaun thakega waise were is my morning kiss
Muskaan: now facing him abhi maine kya kaha rahul
Rahulnot lisning just bring clser his lips and within a minute there lips were touching each other and enjoying there morning kiss broken unfortunately when armaan came
Armaan putting hand on his eyes bro bhabs aap logon ko romance kitchen main karna zarori hai kya
Rahul: jab janta hai to dekh ke nahi khus sakta kitchen main huh
Muskaan hitting him and glaring to be quite
Armaan: bhabs aap kisse samjha rahi hai inhe shram nahi aati kuch logon ko yaad dilana chaiye ki bed room bhi hota hai jab aap log bahar itna involve pehte hai pata nahi bed room main kya karte honge
Listning this rahul and muskaan both went scarlet red
Armaan: not bad bro u also know to blush
Rahul: bahut hoga asale kabse se patar patar kar raha hai ek baar ridhima ko aa jane de phir dekhta hoon tujhe
Armaan unknowing started smiling and blushing hearing her name
Rahul: oh ho ab kaun khush ho raha hai aur lala lala bhi giving muskan hi five
Armaan: stop it ok main koi la pila nahi ho raha bhabs pls breakfast ready kardo mujhe 10 baje nikalna hai
Rahul: if I am not wrong aaj half day hai
Armaan: bro mujhe kuch kaam hai
Rahul: pata hai pata hai kya kaam hai saaf saaf bolna ridhima se milne jar aha hai
Armaan: haan jaan raha hoon now happy
Muskaan: acha baba ab tu dono ladna band karo armaan tum fresh hojao tumara juice aur omlet main bana deti hoon
Armaan: thanks bhabs love u
Rahul: oye chup baith apni ridhima ko bol ye huh
Muskaan was laughing seeing this silly behavior of rahul
Armaan: oh ho someone is jelouse han
Armaan went ooff
Rahul: aur nahi to kya I love u tumhe bolna to mera kaam hai na
Muskaan: was now afraid with his tone rahul pls abhi nahi breakfast reafdy kar lun
Rahul: ok thik hai ab to yeh kaba main hadi nikal jayega 10 baje tab dekhta hoon tumhe winking
Making muskaan blush again
Armaan after getting ready have his breakfast set to go to meet his first love he was wearing t shirt and jeans still looking stunning went on his bike halt in front of mandir
(lols this armaan is different yeh mandir bhi jata hai)
Armaan: praying bhagwanji aaj main apni pehli date par jaraha hoon pls sab thik kardena who shadi ke liye mana na kare god pls pls
Pandtji: are armaan beta tum to Monday ko aate ho aaj to Saturday hai
Armaan: panditji aaj mera bahut important kaam hai jiske liye main 16 somwar vrat kiye hai aaj finally main apne sapne ke bahut karreb hoon
Panditji: ph to who ladki tumhe mil hi gayi par yaad rakhna jaha pyar hota hai waha mushkilein bhi hoti hai beta
Armaan: main janta hoon panditji par aapne hi to kaha hai agar kisse hum sache dil se chahe ya uski khushi ki kamna kare to who puri hoti hai
Panditji : yeh lo Prasad bhagwan tumari har icha puri kare
Taking blessing of him he left
Pizzeria
Armaan was sitting at corner sit waiting for her as soon as she enter the restaurant armaan can feel the cool breeze at once he look at that direction and was mesmerized by her beuty she was wearning normal long skirt and top loking elegent and beautiful
Ridhima: sorry to keep u waiting
Armaan: not its ok main hi time se jaldi aah gaya
Ridhima: ok
Armaan: kya logi
Ridhima: pizaa
Armaan the n orderd their pizaa and colddrink
Ridhima: mujhe yeh
Armaan: dekho ridhima mujhe pata hai tumhe kya jana hai yehi ki mujhe tumare aur abhi ke barrein main sab pata hote hue bi shadi ke liye
Ridhima: haan
Armaan: ridhima abhi tumara past tha I know u also love her now and that’s the thing I like about u your honesty aur yeh to tumhe bhi pata hai I like u sinse colledge times
Ridhima: pata hai armaan par like karna aur puri zindagi betane main bahut pharak hai tumhe to koi bhi mil sakti hai
Armaan: to tum kyun nahi
Ridhima: what
Armaan: dekho ridhima main sab jante hue bhi apne dil se hi tumhe apna raha hoon agar tumhe aitraaz hai to tum mana kar sakti ho
Ridhima: main who nahi kar sakti maine dada ko promise kiya hai
Armaan was sad hearing that he thought she also wanted to marry him bt he was ok with it mujhe isse koi pharak nahi padhta ridhima I like u and want to spend my life with u agar tum yeh zabardasti kar rahi hoon to main tumare parents se baat karun
Ridhima: nahi but one thing I want to make clear hum logon ki shadi hogi par husband wife ka relashionship nahi rahega tum mujeh force nahi karoge jab tak main na chahu main mana nahi kar sakti dada ko tumhe pata hai
Armaan: I know uncle went through severe heart attack don’t worry ridhima sab kuch tumare man se hi hoga jaisa tum chahogi waise bhi arrange marriages main pehle dosti hoti hai phir paayrdon’t worry main tumhe kabhie force nahi karunga we can be friends
Ridhima don’t know why bt looking his eyes she can feel he was honest and will not betray her
Ok if u are ok with the conditions I don’t have any problem
Armaan was smiling finally thinking don’t worry ridhima main tumhe itna pyar dunga tum khud abhi ko bhuljaogi I promise tumhe koi bhi dekh chue uske pehle tumhe mujh par se guzarna hoga main tumhe itna khush rakhunga ki tumhe koi gum kabhie chu hi na paye .
Ridhima: kha kho gaye
Armaan: nahi kuch nahi r u still in contact with anjali
Ridhima: ya I am she is my best friend abhi to who fashion designer bangayi hai uska khud ka bottque bhi hai bas sirf
Armaan: ky aua ruk kyun gayi
Ridhima: who atul
Armaan: atul tumhe who yaad hai
Ridhima: main use kaise bhul sakti hoon kabhie bike race kabhie bb hamedhsa wahi to abhi ko challenge karta tha aur tum side main khade ho kar bas dekte rehthe the
U have changed armaan
Armaan: un batton ko 5 saal ho gaye hai ridhima koi bhi change ho sakta hai
Ridhima: to kya atul bhi
Armaan: nahi who waise ka waisa hi hai use ab bhi commitment aur bandhan pe viushwas nahi hai kya anjali ab bhi use
Ridhima: who to kabhie use bhuli hi nahi thi waise abhi atul kaha hai
Armaan: who mere saath hi hai business main specially sare female models magazine ke cover page ke liye who hi select karta hai
(armaan had business for publishing magazines of designer wears wears basically publication house )
Ridhima: ladkiyon ki aur uski tuni hamesha se hi achi rahi hai kyun smiling
Armaan: haan who to hai
Ridhima: abhi mujhe jana hai late ho raha hai meeting ke liye
Armaan: ok chalo
As they went outside
Armaan:chalo main tumhe chod deta hoon
Seeing bike ridhima was frigtenede
Ridhima: main bike se nahi jaungi
Armaan: kyun tumhe to bikes achi lagti thi
Ridhima: maine kaha na armaan tum jao main taxi se chali jati hoon
Armaan: ok main tumare saath hi chalta hoon
Ridhima: nahi its ok I can go
Armaan: don’t worry baba maine bro ko keh dunga who kisse aur se keh kar bike ghar pauncha dega ab chalo
Ridhima: ok
In taxi
There was silence for sometime
Armaan: aaj main aur kuch friends disco ja rahe hai tum aana chagi
Ridhima: main ab disco nahi jati
Armaan: what mera matlab hai tumhe to bike racuing discos kitna acha lagta tha ridhima tum bhi kitni badal gayi ho
Ridhima: as u say 5 saal kam nahi hote armaan
Armaan just smile
Prerecap
Anjali atul entry
Why ridhima left everything which she used to do first
(I know guys in this armaan ridhima atul anjali are totally different from what u have seen earlier I will try my best to make u all recognize with them the main reason I was nervous starting this ff)
karan ki dewani mithila
Thursday, November 26
Dill Mill Gayye Nov 26 Episode
Serial: Dil Mil Gaye (Dill Mill Gayye)
Channel : Star One
Segment 3: Love Is For Ever
SEGMENT 3: Jeene Ke Ishaare Mill Gayye
The delay is owed to the long and challenging process of acquiring permission to continue this story. This has been the second most difficult segment to put down in words. Lovy’s refusal to speak on the subject was the major drawback… as her opinions, rather her description of an event or incident makes things easier… provides enough of rough draft to work upon. Whatever I’ve been able to write in this segment is based solely upon Aditya’s narration and point of view.
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Date: 22nd January, 2008
The Hyundai Verna collided with the goods truck at the jutting edge and fell fifty feet onto the rocks below.
Its front end crumpled with the force of impact, thrusting two-foot of metal back into the car. The windshield exploded, showering the insides with deadly slivers of glass. Both the driving wheel and dashboard compacted into one mangled mess. The rear side passenger door was savagely torn free from its hinges and the front two wheels were sent spinning out into the night. The metal of the car groaned like the final cry of some wounded beast. It shuddered once and then fell slowly onto its side.
After that, all was silent for a while.
In a world that was not a world, two lovers embraced for one last time. As one, they floated into a dimensionless distance. Together again, together as they had always been, they headed off into whatever waited for them along the timeline of eternal existence.
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Date: 24th January, 2008
Aditya could just barely hear some mourners whispering about him from the corridor.
What’s going to happen to poor Aditya?
Aditya looked over at them all just to see them stare back at him with sad and heartbroken expressions on their faces. At that point though, he didn’t care about who was going to look after him. All he cared about was that right now, he was alone. Aditya walked over to his sister. Akanksha gave him a big hug and wept, holding onto him. Ashish, Akanksha's husband separated Akanksha from Aditya. He patted Aditya's shoulder and hugged Akanksha.
Ashish: (not separating Akanksha from himself) Adi... go, have some dinner. Tumne kal se kuch nahi khaaya hai.
Then he turned towards the wailing Akanksha.
Ashish: Akshu… Ansh ke pass chalo… usey akela nahi chhodna chahiye.
Akanksha: (wiping her tears) Ansh to Sharma Uncle ke pass hai… Aunty ne kaha tha ki usey yahaan se door rakhna chahiye… yahaan pe pareshaan ho jaayega.
Adi: Wo log chale gaye?
Akanksha and Ashish both turned to face Aditya, who looked away. Aditya’s voice seemed to have come from very far away. Ashish chose to answer.
Ashish: Nahi… abhi yahin hain. Pooja ki saari preparations Uncle dekh rahe the… aur Ayushi…
Akanksha shook her head, preventing Ashish from elaborating.
Akanksha: Adi, chalo… kuch kha lo.
Aditya did not speak, but turned and rushed out from the room and out through the front door.
Ashish: (pressing Akanksha’s hands between his, reassuring her) Sab theek ho jaayega…
Akanksha: (nodding) Ayushi theek hai?
Ashish: Nahi.
Akanksha: Usey Adi se milne dena chahiye?
Ashish: Pata nahi…
Akanksha: Ashish… Uncle-Aunty ke hote hue mujhe Adi ki fikr nahi hai… lekin… hume usey apne saath le chalna chahiye.
Ashish: Ye decision Adi ko lena hoga… mujhe bhi lagta hai ki better yahi hoga ki Adi humare saath chale.
Akanksha: Uncle-Aunty ke pass chalte hain… wahi batayenge ki kya karna chahiye.
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Aditya was tired, of how life played games on their dreams and aspirations. There he was, in another part of the world fighting his battle, as he was here, not just to survive but to live. He wanted to escape from his world of reality to other side of the world. He felt as if his brain couldn’t work and his monotonous life drugged it to stop thinking any more.
Pain and shock stilled him. Time passed as he stood there, waiting for Alok and Sangeeta to come back to him. A second ticked away, then minutes, later, hours. Aditya dared not move from his spot. It was as if he could prevent himself from accepting the harsh fact so long as he didn't move. His feet and back ached, but not as much as his heart with each passing second. He refused to register the fact that his Ma and Pa would not turn up, that they were no more. His firm stance on the ground revealed nothing of the turbulent emotions in him.
Suddenly the thunder rumbled, dark clouds rolled in. Within seconds, the sky split open, and rain poured down. The cold harsh rain triggered Aditya, making him crumble to the ground. The impact he made with the ground shook him to the core. His hands clawed at the grass, his shoulders shaking. The tears that had been inside him, poured out, very much like how the rain fell. Aditya howled his pain and despair, thumping the ground with a fist.
Though the rain started down harshly, it gentled now, washing away his tears. It was as though the rain pitied him, washing away his tears was its only way to try to heal him. But no matter how gentle the rain was, Aditya was indifferent to this. Only one thought etched itself in his mind.
His parents would never return.
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Mamma: Lovy, ab bas karo… Ansh so raha hai.
Apoorva: Tum jaakar khaana khaati ho ya nahi? Ek baar me tumhe kuch samajh me kyun nahi aata?
Lovy: (amidst tears) KuDi, chup raho… Ansh so raha hai.
Apoorva made a face.
Daddy: Kuhu-Lovy… please! Lovy… tum jaakar khaana khao.
Lovy: Daddy please… bas ek baar…
Mamma: (before Daddy could relent) Nahi… abhi nahi… tum abhi ussey se nahi milogi.
Ashish, Akanksha: (both together, entering) Mil lene dijiye Aunty…
They both made their way towards the bed and sat on it. Ayushi jumped to her feet.
Mamma: (sternly) Ayushi, baith jao… is waqt Adi tumse na mile to behtar hai… khud to roti rahogi… usey bhi pareshaan kar dogi. Adi ka hume tumse zyada khayaal rakhna hai abhi.
Lovy: Main… main khayaal rakhungi Adi ka. I’ll not cry.
Tears formed at the edges of her eyes when she saw Aditya’s face in her mind’s eye. Brushing them away, Ayushi took a deep breath and plastered a false smile upon her lips.
Akanksha: Jao mil lo…
Ayushi did not need telling twice. She sprinted off before anyone else could stop her.
Daddy: Beta, lekin…
Akanksha: Rehne dijiye Uncle… ro lene dijiye un dono ko. Adi ko bhi sukoon milega uski Ayu se mil ke.
Apoorva: Adi theek hai na Di?
Akanksha: Abhi bhi baat nahi kar raha kisi se. Aunty…
Mamma: Haan beta?
Akanksha: Aunty, actually… hum log soch rahe hain ki exams ke baad Adi ko apne saath le jaayenge.
Mamma: Kyun? Yahaan hum uska khayaal nahi rakhenge kya?
Daddy: Usey bol lene do pehle. Bolo Akanksha…
Akanksha: Aunty, aisa nahi hai… hume pata hai ki aap log Adi ka bahut achhe se khayaal rakhenge… lekin shaayad Adi yahaan normal nahi ho paayega… isiliye… aur… aap logon ko bhi pareshaani hogi.
Mamma did not reply.
Ashish: Aunty… aapko bura to nahi laga?
Mamma: Nahi… agar Adi bhi yahi chaahta hai to usey le jao… hum log kabhi ye nahi chaahenge ki wo yahaan humare pass rahe aur khush na rahe.
Apoorva: Lekin Lovy… I mean, Ayushi?
Akanksha: Haan… wo maan jaayegi?
Mamma: Tumhe aisa lagta hai ki hume Ayushi ki khushi Adi ki khushi se zyada pyari hogi?
Akanksha hugged Mamma, crying.
Akanksha: Thank you Aunty… aap logon ke saath ke wajah se aisa nahi lagta ki Mom-Dad hume chhod ke chale gaye hain… thank you!
Mamma could not help herself from crying too.
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Aditya was feeling so unloved that he thought he would be alone for ever. He kept sitting there on the ground, struggling silently to hold back his tears now. Aditya was about to wander away into his thoughts when he heard distant footsteps drawing closer and closer towards him. He had no idea who was coming and was still unable to come out of his mind-journey, when he finally saw who there was: there was none other than his bestest friend, a friend like whom he had not found second, and there she was, as if they were seeing each other for the very first time.
He felt as if his eyes were dazzled as when one looks at the sun. Everyone sees something beautiful that they will never forget, and she was his treasure. She was half way across the garden, but yet, he knew he would come to love her, if he didn't already.
But what if she too left him one day?
Ayushi came and crouched beside him on the ground, at eye level.
Silence greeted him. Unperturbed, he said, "Go away."
After spending the time alone, Aditya had cooled down considerably. His mind was now clear again. Aditya silently sent a thankful prayer that his expression was now composed and controlled. Otherwise, Ayushi would have read everything like an open book from his face.
Quietly, Ayushi reached out and placed her hand on Aditya’s, who spent no time in shrugging it off.
Adi: (repeating) Go away! Leave me alone.
Ayu: Adi… tum theek ho?
Adi: (losing his cool on Ayushi) Tum logon ko kya pareshaani hai? Mujhe akela kyun nahi chhod dete? Why can’t you people understand that the only thing in my life that is keeping me happy, keeping me breathing, keeping me alive, is not you! I don’t need any of you!
Ayu: I know you don’t need me Adi… but I need you.
Aditya looked at her as if she had just said that the earth was actually flat.
Ayushi put her hand on his shoulder and at that moment, Aditya’s head burst. He felt his head hit her lap. He couldn't open his eyes, couldn't straighten up. Ayushi sat in silence, and carefully studied the broken look that fell across Aditya’s face. Her own face was glazed with tears while Aditya’s was free from any mark of sobs. Her fingertips gently brushed the surface of his arms as he clung onto her lap.
Adi: (without raising his face) They’ll come back na, Ayu?
Ayushi didn’t have to guess who Aditya was talking about. There was a pregnant silence after which Aditya looked up at her, still waiting for her answer. Waiting for her to console him, for her to tell him that everything would soon be fine. That they would come back. Ayushi was gazing at the stars, trying to find two familiar faces in those constellations.
Adi: Ayu??
Ayu: (switching her gaze back to Aditya and speaking slowly, putting stress on each and every word she spoke) Adi, they won’t come back. They won’t come back ever.
The impact of hearing these words, spoken so transparently like this, was the same on both Aditya and Ayushi. Aditya shook slightly, convulsed now, in tears; tears running down his cheeks, trying to let the harsh truth sink inside his heart. Ayushi’s eyes too were full of tears, for she had accepeted the terrible truth with her whole heart and mind.
Ayu: Adi...
Adi: (as if Ayushi’s voice gave him the reminder to speak) They never told me about their leaving. They never even said goodbye. They didn't even say a word to me. I won’t let them go!
Ayu: (taking Aditya’s face in her hands) Adi, please… wo tumse milna chaahte honge, baat karna chaahte honge… but…
Adi: Wo aise nahi ja sakte… main… main bhi unke saath jaunga… you leave me alone! I don’t need you! Go away!
Ayu: Adi!
Adi: I don’t need you, understood? I DON’T NEED YOU! GO AWAY!
Ayu: (raising her voice, silencing Aditya) I’ll not go away! Just understand one thing Adi… tum akele nahi ho. We’re all with you… Uncle-Aunty se hum sab pyar karte the… aur hum sab tumse bhi bahut pyar karte hain. We all love you Adi… you’re not alone!
Ayushi was looking straight into Aditya’s eyes. He kept quiet immediately when he saw the determined expression on her face. By the end of the day, the thing that mattered most to him was not his parents, but Ayushi. She was the one who had prompted him to take the first step out of his protective shell and be the person who he was today, the one who taught him to smile just because the sun is out. Even now, she was teaching him--- teaching him to live.
Ayu: I’ll not leave you Adi… I’ll never go away… I won’t…
Adi: (punctuating her) Promise?
He held out a hand. Without leaving his gaze, Ayushi put her hand in his and nodded through tearful eyes. And in that beautiful moment they locked eyes, suddenly, Aditya had a thought. He now knew when she was most beautiful.
Ayushi was most beautiful when looking at him.
Reluctantly, he tore himself away from the enchanting image. Forcing a small smile to smooth the hurt inside, Aditya stood up.
Adi: Andar chalo Ayu Baby… it’s too cold here. Aur… hume dinner bhi karna hai… and… thanks!
Aditya helped Ayushi to her feet.
Ayu: Thanks kis liye?
Adi: Mujhe samjhne ke liye… and I know, it’s not easy.
Aditya’s breath hitched as the memories flooded his mind.
Ayu: Hmm, tumhari yahi problem hai… tum kisi se kuch bhi share nahi karte.
Adi: (confessing) Except you.
Ayushi leaned over to softly kiss the top of his head. Aditya felt the haze of warmth wash over him as he submitted to its influence.
Ayu: No need to say thanks, anyways… what are friends for?
Adi: (looking at Ayushi steadily) Friends?
Ayu: Haan… you know FRIENDS.
She pronounced it as though introducing a new word in the English language and Aditya was to repeat after her.
Adi: (muttering, rolling the word around as if this was the first time he said it) Friends… yes, of course.
Ayu: I’ll miss you, Adi.
Adi: Main kahin nahi ja raha Ayu.
Ayu: Tum Di-Jiju ke saath…
Adi: Nahi jaunga.
Ayu: Lekin wo log to…
Adi: Unhone mujhse kaha tha… aur decision mujhe lena hai… na main is ghar ko chhodkar jaunga, aur na tumhe.
Ayushi stared at him when Aditya’s voice interrupted her thoughts.
Adi: (taking her hand) Watch your step… barish ki wajah se slippery ho gaya hai. I’ll go first.
He swung in front of her so fast, there was nothing to do but follow him up. Ayushi placed her feet where Aditya’s had safely stepped.
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Thank you for your lovely comments. Stay tuned in to “LOVE IS FOR EVER” for more. Comments and constructive criticism are welcomed.
Luv,
Armaan
Sanju REPLIES
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... Sanju
My Replies to all those who commented under my thread.
SS Ji :- )
Greetings !!
I am glad that my message reached to one up than teens and youth level, I appreciate in your honest views; I have also in my mind to call Mutual respect between Parents & Child and hopefully that will help you come up with better understanding with your children but seeing the way you presented your views; I doubt if you need any tutorials for parenting.
Jhanvi Ji :-)
I have name given to me by my parents and I am very happy with that name given as per our culture rites. Hence I keep out of names given by others.
I am happy that you are out of troubled waters; anything more you can put that in your comments here as I reply to everyone here and have no special queue for Friends or Philosopher & Guide seekers.
Lovy :- )
Many Thanks for the pictures, I am happy to read that you have extended our respect to parents, elders to our Nation too and I must salute you for this brave gesture.
Sunita Ji :-)
Aap Kaahan Chup Gayyi Ho?
Ranbir : - )
I know it’s late but due to work I keep trotting the globe so could not get time to sit in front of this machine, I hope you are still reading this and let me hold hand of your friendship, will be happy to read your acknowledgement.
Anu :- )
I know saying sorry, so sorry, very very sorry very very very sorry will not help but then was not here in town and the part I had been bound was having no access to net, will soon reply your mail too soon before I may pack up again for some small trip to Far East next month.
As I travel I get to write more in my diary as any place I travelled HEART is common factor and it beats in same rhythm plus Human relationship deals almost for all female & male alike.
Well now we have comments Thumbs up & down so we know the figures, so Modji listened on this part of suggestion raised sometime back.
You keep visiting the blog and will find me here only, my predictions I have stopped but began writing on General topics from now on and regard to not taking part in photo contest, well I felt I was one suggesting the idea and self taking part in it might have been bit biased, but I did my voting part sincerely and guess what the one I voted were the ones who actually got top honors.
I know you are one amongst those who always have gone at archives too to hunt something that you miss out in past. I just hope that you have good memories stored up now so that when you move ahead in life then you can look back with broad smile. Your reply made my life…. Just kidding!!!
Dr. Shehla :-)
Wish I too had taken in MBBS as I realized it quite late but till than time could not fly back, nothing to feel low as me too very irregular as seen from your next comment calling me very bad on this, I may go missing but will never disappear from blog that has given me so much for eg. Just without asking Allah have bestowed me such a sweet sister and she has all good upbringing and virtues, I am thankful for your suggestion for Autograph and not to mention Modji help in immediately putting that on our request, next time do not worry if the thread goes even in archive; I will have it accessed. I appreciate you taking aspect of Love & Respect to Friendship level too, I feel very glad when I read your name in blog be that in under any thread as it enriches me the level you write just binds the person who reads your day to day schedule, your say on the post and then add your valuable note on the subject.
Any news of Dr. Shahista? Missing her and her family.
Tammana :-)
Atul is back, How many more left out?
Mithila :- )
To be Honest if we look at wider zone then we find that Girls are more loyal to their aged parents so I am saying that your parents are very lucky to have you as such doted daughter.
Neha :-)
Parents are important part of our life and your realization of this aspect will have God blessings on you always.
Chika :- )
Thanks for liking the story; however please do not remain in secret always.
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So folks I will be now signing out and hope my posts are long enough to give you long spells of sleep that none of you suffer from Insomnia.
On this positive note I bid adieu to be back soon, very soon.
... Sanju
Wednesday, November 25
Dill Mill Gayye Nov 25 Episode
Serial: Dil Mil Gaye (Dill Mill Gayye)
Channel : Star One
Part 13: The Surprise
She woke up to the smell of roses surrounding her. Eyes still closed she stretched herself on the bed n dug deeper into the pillow. Then again realizing the smell she opened her eyes to sumthing tht did not look like her cabin at all.
Covered with red roses all over it looked just as beautiful as it possibly could. She smiled broadly when she read the big wordings on the opposite wall.
"Happy Birthday My Lady Love"
"I Love You.."
On the table below there was a package and a card over it with a rose on top. Beside it thr was a huge teddy bear holding out a heart tht said "I Love You".
She closed her eyez for a moment wishing tht it wasn't a dream. She moved out of the bed n soon as she placed her feet on the floor there was a blast. She was shocked and closed her eyes tightly. She opened them when she felt something near her legs and let out a gasp.
The whole floor was covered with red ballons. To her it looked more like a valentines day. She moved to the table with a smile on her lips. She picked the rose n caressed it n then picked the card. She opened it n read.
"For me you are everything
Special in you is something
Love you from the bottom of my heart
Of my life your a precious part
Today all I wish is to say
I love you more with every passing day."
She felt her heart beating wilder at his love. She continued to read.
" Good Morning Princess. I know it was a bad attempt but that was all i could manage with the rhyming. But i mean every word of it. Actually i dun mean the second and the fourth line at all. Coz everything in you is special n ur not a part of my life. Your my life. My every breath is for you. And today as your safely locked in my heart i dun want anything more in life........I guess i am getting too filmy now.........nwaz i am waiting for you at the end of the staircase............plz come soon.......dieing to meet you......
"Happy Birthday."
P.S. do open the gift before coming down......
She closed the card smiling too widely. She felt she was the luckiest person on earth to have Armaan in her life. She tried placing the card back in the envelope but something came its way. She looked into it and found a small red heart inside. She pulled it out n saw tht thr was a smaller heart popping out of the bigger one n making it like a card. The small one read..."The golden rule of love is............." She turned it to see what the bigger one read......"To love and Be loved.
She picked up the teddy bear n started dancing with it all around the room as if it was Armaan in her arms. She hummed some random tune she herself din recognise. Finally she stopped when she was out of breath. Panting she fell down on the bed with the teddy n spoke to it,
" I love you too Armaan. I love yu very very much"
She hugged the teddy tightly n sat like tht for sometime smiling all to herself. She wanted to declare her love to the world. She wanted to scream it out n she did.
"Riddhima Gupta loves Armaan Mallik.
I love Armaan."
She started dancing again limitless when she remembered tht he was waiting for her. She took the package n opened having a hunch of what it may have. And as to her expectations, there was a red off shouldered evening gown it with all the other matching accessories. She smiled again imagining herself in it. She quickly took a shower n dressed herself in it. She took a look in the mirror n realised tht she din need her dee's help at all this time. She looked perfect she thought.
"Obviously ridzi, its Armaan's gift. u look gorgeous in it", she complimented herself.
"Hmmmm.....Armaan is going to go flat today"..........she blushed at her own comment.
Finally taking some pity for Armaan she gave herself one glance in the mirror again n moved to the door to go n meet him.
The scene outside was much different from inside. Every second person gave her a rose n wished her. Every two steps she looked around she found the words "Happy birthday" staring back at her. Partly amused n partly surprised, she realised how special she was feeling today. She really had never imagined all this n never thought of such a surprise from anyone. Not even her father. But Armaan had changed everything for her.
She moved Gracefuuly towardz the staircase n found him standing at the end of it deep in conversation with Rahul, his back facing her.She started descending the stairz when he turned around.
Deep in conversation with Rahul about something, he noticed Rahul loose track of his wordz n staring at someone over his shoulder. Quite irritated he turned around to see what it was n his eyes fell on her.
Their eyes met n nothing else seemed important to them other than each other. To him she was something wordz couldn't describe. It looked like a fairy tale come true as she descended the stairs n he began ascending it towardz her. They met in the centre eyes still locked with each other as Muskaan joined Rahul at the bottom and was cheerfully smiling at the duo.
"Rahul.....u better remember my bday when it comes.....n yeah i am not gonna be happy with just a party....."
"Really sweetheart??? Then what exactly do u expect from me??" he asked her naughtily sliding his arm around her waist n pulling her close.
"Rahuuuul....i din mean like that.....it shd be something special thts it..." she said blushing badly.
"Dun worry baby...it will be very special.." he said passionately giving her a light kiss on her cheek n making it go redder."You know what Muskaan??? When i am with u u dun need a blush at all..."
"Rahuuul........."
"Muskaaaaaan..."....she smiled at him n he smiled back resting his head on her shoulder n letting out a sigh.
"I love you sweetheart"
"I love you too"
If love was blossoming here two people at the centre of the staircase were in a world of their own.
Armaan n Riddhima were still staring at each other unaware of people glancing at them.
He coudn't get his eyes off the angel standing in front of him. "His Angel". His heart skipped a beat thinking that. They were standing very close to each other n he could feel her breath around him the fragrance engulfing him. He moved closer to her n took her hands in his kissing them forgetting totally about his surroundings.
She stood thr staring at him. He looked handsome in a denim black jeans with a red shirt n a black coat over it. His masculine perfume smelling heavenly was making her go weak in the knees. Her heart skipped many beats as he moved closer to her n kissed her hands.
They were so lost in each other tht they din see Rahul n Muskaan approaching them. Rahul was aware tht the duo had lost the world n found it necessary to intervene to avoid the staring now.
" You look......." he started unable to fing wordz.
"Ahem...guys i think we should move now. You know tht centre of the staircase in not particularly a good spot to have an eye lock."..he grinned cheekily as Muskaan did the same at his side.
Thye broke the eye lock looking away.
"Happy Birthday ridzy.....u grew a year older." She said hugging her
"Thanks muski...u make it sound like i have reachd old age already."
"Never mind tht Riddhima.....anwaz Happy Birthday.. .am I suppose to wish u for a golden jubilee??"
"Rahuuulll even u???"..she made a puppy face..
"Ah just kidding" he said giving her a side hug.
"By the way Ridzi ....You look gorgeous...Armaan seems to have bowled out today."....Muskaan quipped pointing towardz Armaan who hadn't spoken a word n was jus looking at her. He immediately diverted his gaze at Muskaan's comment while Riddhima blushed.
"Acha forget that....where did u get this dress from? I never saw it in ur luggage since i was the one who did ur packing....n u din buy it since we came here..."...She asked trying to hide the naughtiness in her voice as she was well aware of the facts..
Luckily Rahul came to her rescue tht second bt the very next out her into a more bad one.
"Oh forget that Muskaan.....its not important.....well Riddhima...since u came Armaan din speak a word....did he not wish u so far at all..??"
Armaan shot his head towardz them n her eyez met his as they both remembered the dance n the short moment they had after tht. Riddhima looked down going redder by the second.
"Yeah Ridzy....Armaan was with u yesterday when it struck 12...tell me how did he wish you??"
"Errr ....Muskaan.....actually....."she tried finding words.
"I still din wish her guyz owing to the fact tht ur bak - bak has been going on n u both din gve me a chance at all to speak to her". ..he thought he had saved the moment but Rahul n Muskaan were in for something else.
"Ohoooo....Mr. Romeo is restless to wish his Juliet Rahul........Should we do the courtesy of sparing him some moments with her so tht he can personally wish her in the way he was about to when we disturbed their eye lock."
Rahul chuckled badly n Armaan went red wid embarresment as Riddhima kept her head bowed.
Has Muskaan resolved to burn me wid embarresment today?
Rahul got over his chuckling n said..."Oh no Muskaan....we r Riddhima's friends.....she owes us sometime too.....Mr. Romeo can wish d Juliet later personally. Right now i think we need a bash ....dun we??
"Yeah your right......come on riddhima..."...She grabbed Riddhima's hand n started moving away taking her wid her.
Riddhima turned back n saw Armaan having a helpless look on his face. She smiled at him as he still stood thr almost shocked.
He came out of it n ran to catch up wid them.
"Hang on guyz...."
They stopped n he grabbed Riddhima's other hand.
" I know she owes you time but i need to talk to her first....personally..."He added the last word in a low tone..
" Oh come on Armaan.....You can do that later...."...Muskaan said.
"Rahooooool....dun u think i should talk to Riddhima first before u ppl start a bash??"....he gave Rahul a revengeous "try me" look..The latter took the que n undstud tht they had pulled him enough for the day.
"Errrr....yeah Muskaan....i think we should give them some time......n sometime means just sometime Armaan.."....he added trying to sound brave.
Riddhima had the urge to laugh out at this but thn decided to b silent. She really felt special today.
Muskaan gave up her cheekiness n moved away with Rahul. Armaan pulled Riddhima away from the crowd and took her in a room tht had nothing other than a LCD screen in it.He took hold of her hands again n kissed them very gently.
"Happy Birthday Princess...,,Did you like the surprise???"
"Thank you Armaan......I loved it.......I never thought you would do so much for me"
"I can give my life for you honey.....this is nothing"
"Ssssshhhhh"....she placed a finger on his mouth moving closer and he took a deep breath." My life is nothing without yours, so dun ever say that again"
They both smiled at each other looking into each otherz eyes.
" Hmm....so you loved the surprise more or the person who gave it to you???"
"Umm...i will have to think about that you know....tuff competiton...."...She added wid a naughty grin.
"Really???...If you want i can prove myself right away that i am way much better".....He pulled her close and then turned her around her back facing his chest n wrapped his hands aroun her stomach, resting his head on her shoulder.
She almost gasped when he wrapped his hands around her but relaxed the next second feeling his warmth n scent enveloping her.
"Is it???How can u do that???"
"I can....." he breathed on her neck making her close her eyes...." do anything for you".....he kissed her neck gently as she curved it giving him space. " Anything that ".....he lingered his lips throughout her neck line as her nails dug into his hands he pulled her closer. "makes you happy....Anything"...He finished whispering it in her ear...."By the way honey, I was wondering what present you wanted from me since u din make it clear at all las night.."He had naughty glint in his eyes.
She blushed thinking what she had done when he had previously asked her the question. She din know why she had done that. She just felt for it. She was still aware of his closeness and never wanted to get away from his armz. She wanted to live evry second of her life by him, alwaz in his love. He had made her mad about him and he knew it very well. She sighed deeply as she felt his warm breath again on her neck.
"Nothing Armaan....i think we should go....Rahul n Muskaan r waiting for us."
She tried getting free from his hold but he only tightened it.
"Nah....i first wanto know what u want?"
She turned back in his arms now facing him n immediately looking away the moment he caught her eye. There were so many things they spoke that she felt she would drown in them.She looked up again n somehow managed to hold his gaze.
"Will you give me anything I want?"
"Yes honey anything....even my life"
She frowned.
"Ok sorry...anything except my life...." he added cheekily.
"Anything? Promise?
"Yeah promise."
"Ok then i will think and tell you at the end of the day what i want"
He raised his eye brows and she laughed out aloud.
"Dun worry Armaan...."
She could speak no further as she felt a gentle touch on her lips n felt him kiising her so gently that she was craving for more. She moved her hands around his hair puling him closer and kissing him back even more gently.
He never felt anything more bliisfull than this moment in his whole life. and when she kissed him back he felt he was in heaven n under god's bliss. He tightened his grip around her and making her crush in his chest as they both felt the desire for each other. After the short gentle moment they moved apart and he rested his head on her forehead .
"I love you Riddhima"...he whispered very lightly.
"I love you too Armaan..."She hugged him tightly digging her head in his chest.
She stayed like that for sometime and when she looked up their were tearz in her eyez.
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hey friends....I aplologise for not replying individually this time...time is short for me...i hope u guyz understand and forgive me.....i will try my best to answer u all the next time...my apologies once again.....i hope u all liked this part...i tried my best to lengthen it.....i hope everyone is happy reading it...plz do leave comments......they mean a lot...especially for this part coz this part is special...it has moments from my true life in it...now i am not telling which moments!!!.....But plz do leave comments to appreciate or to criticize....whichever u feel best for it....will be eagerly waiting....love you all .....Hugs....
Take best care
Love
Ams
Tuesday, November 24
Dill Mill Gayye Nov 24 Episode
Serial: Dil Mil Gaye (Dill Mill Gayye)
Channel : Star One
Monday, November 23
Dill Mill Gayye Nov 23 Episode
Serial: Dil Mil Gaye (Dill Mill Gayye)
Channel : Star One
Love & Respect
Love & Respect
... Sanju
Dear All Friends, Sisters, Brothers & Silent Readers...
Replies to my last post comments will be soon posted under this. . .
The field on relationship is so vast that every one has something to say on the very subject, during my write up on our respect to elders it stuck me that since respect is not on one way lane so I wanted to come out with something what parents must endow for their children, though as many of blog members are still young to comprehend but for sure I will put that viewpoint by next weekend on short write up covering Mutual Respect between Parents & Children.
How many of us have made an effort for laying foundation of our relationships on 'Love' and found that something is not to a certain extent working? Maybe we just end up as good friends, like Ridz often faced initially with Armaan but not as lovers? Maybe feeling in a fondness for each other, but nothing more than that.
It makes me then deem that maybe love in itself is not sufficient. More than love maybe more for someone is needed as an attraction to us as a potential partner. Behaving in 'lovable' ways may facilitate some people be attracted to us as a friend, but it is not necessarily adequate to craft that exceptional spark.
Let we assume for it all depends on what we mean by 'love'?
Many inhabitants, love shows itself as behaviour or an emotion that is kind, caring, and supportive. But then what about Strong Love? Maybe that too has a place even in the romance.
Appreciation is evidently not the equivalent to an excitement. We value kindness, but it is not exciting. If a prospective partner is looking for some exhilaration in a romantic relationship, then are more likely to be attracted to someone X who challenges them than someone Y; who is only kind to them. The paramount thing is to tender both.
Being intelligent enough to give populace a positive challenge can be very good for a relationship, or even a prospective relationship. A positive challenge stand for not bond masses away with behaviour that is not respectful to us.
Coming on to the point in how to offer a positive challenge?
One angle is to stay away from blaming them, or even attacking them. By doing that will just put them on the defensive; Idea is to help them, not to hurt them.
For instant if our partner comes late on the date making us wait for long;
Some of us would in due course get angry and in an abusive way say that &#@&%# is always late, or maybe we would say nothing but get angry silently and even reply in a sulky way.
It is always in good health to just be honest without attacking them, but to do so in a light playful way. Something like, "Is arriving behind schedule all the time your way of playing hard to get or something?"
Sometimes uttering a small thing is enough to shift things dramatically. We can be half-funny, while keeping them wondering how serious we really are, shows all the better.
When we can call people on their mistakes without harming them, it puts both of us on the same side which builds up the trust and intimacy. Thus it displays that we require a respect, in a playful manner, we can add a lot of spice to relationships.
When we put up with things, we eat away our self-respect and the respect that the other person has for us.
Respect is part of the 'soil' that love needs to grow and to allow it to bloom, for relationships fall apart when respect has gone.
We often complain of others deserting us for whom we did so much. The catch is in telling we did so much but instead of this had we handled it differently things may have been special.
When we cling to an approach of 'expecting respect', we habitually don't even have to say anything. Others establish to sense that we are not the type to be muddled around and they are inclined to behave themselves better anyway.
An additional advantage of all this is that it facilitates us be more respectful of our own feelings. It acquires us into the tradition of conducting ways that show that our stance matter. This is an influential communication to our out cold mind and has a tendency to make us feel less 'needy'.
When we take care of our own feelings and act on them in positive ways and this takes care of one of our elementary needs i.e. to have our feelings taken seriously. Others get 'needy' when their feelings are not being respected and acted upon by themselves.
Making sure that people around us treat us with due respect takes practice. It also takes audacity, so there is no damage in initiating out doing it in diminutive ways.
Of course, creating respect is on the whole attractive when done on behalf of our love – Trust me; that it is also a lot of fun.
Coming now to world wide question that I have been hearing since my early days, what do men & women REALLY want?
This is rather from a deeper foundation; a more meaningful, more deep-seated root of what the couple really wants in life & from those around them.
Often from a platonic friendship & non committed relationship we have the opportunity to explore this idea without the conclusion we would often get in a relationship. There were no worries about being offensive to the other; just an honest & eye opening look into the opposite friend. I think we might land up to hit the nail on the head & very well may solve the mystery.
Now the GOLDEN RULE - - > Men want RESPECT. Women want LOVE.
Simple? I think so.
Let me be assistance to you. . .
From all the relationships in our life, past & present, what is the one thing that can make or break it?
The success or failure of any relationship is a result of those two words; Respect & Love. From the perception of the two different personalities this is the point where it is lost in the translation.
Men, because they desire respect, will award it, almost freely. We respect our bosses, friends & although may not like our opponents, in field like studies, sports or even on the job, we RESPECT them.
It is obvious when we in early teens. It is habitually so much easier to be friends with boys, because we will acquaint with it like it is, there is not a lot of mind games plus the competition maintains a level of respect. Since we want respect, we are programmed to believe that this is number one for women as well.
Women on the other hand, desire LOVE.
From young girls they are surrounded by the need for love, to give it & receive it. It’s evident from the nurturing play with dolls, to the constant revolving door i.e. changing of “best friends” & then dreaming to become best wives and or super mothers someday.
LOVE truly makes the world go round but the lack of it can make it stop, women often are subject to the broken hearts, for the reason that the love wasn’t reciprocated in the way that they desire.
Searching for love the[r whole lives, on top of all else.
That is why many of them want so badly to become mothers, for they can give and receive unconditional love, one that will never falter.
Women need love so they automatically give that to the men in their lives which I feel is wrong approach, to a degree.
Universally ALL of us irrespective of gender want Love AND Respect, but in the difference of gender, we tend to emphasise what it is WE want as an option of looking with an open mind & heart, at what we want. We must next in thinking to GIVE our partner; we should actually give them what THEY want.
When we receive respect, we respond in love, likewise when women receive love they begin to respect that construct a healthy cycle.
Most of us react rather than take action that results in;
Men when they feel disrespected them act unloving by shutting down or acting out aggressively. Women when feel unloved they disrespect, they act such as nagging or using arrogant tones.
Understanding this dissimilarity we can link the crack between each other & it is in OUR INDIVIDUAL power to change.
So, my fellow brothers, give LOVE! enlighten her that she looks good, let her cry on your shoulder, talk to her, ask about her life & dreams, hold her, be an intrical part of her, know her inside & out, LOVE her in all her glory & in all her flaws.
No Conditions & No Demands (stolen from AGKPK) :- )
Sisters, give RESPECT! Give him praise, encourage him, cheer him on, and give him the gift of TIME so that he does the things he loves to do. Don’t nag & bug pick on all his imperfections & don’t talk down to him. Should not try to change him.
Be proud of who he is, show him off, fluff his feathers & stroke his ego, ESPECIALLY when he is down.
We must give our partners what they really want, and it also means that which isn’t necessarily what we, ourselves would want. It also sounds that to every relationship is COMMUNICATION.
In a way that another can appreciate us on THEIR level. It starts & ends with Us. So from today now on, give that special person what they REALLY want.
For sure all will see, like magic, we will get what we actually wanted. This will however happen if we go & make the first move.
Many complain in Love Marriage being a failure and men and women who were in love and when finally get married, they find love is already gone. As a result of getting married, love vanished. That's what we see on the surface.
The purpose of love is to get married and the purpose of marriage is to have children. Therefore, we assume that love basically is a method and so is the
marriage; when the goal is achieved, the method can naturally be ignored.
Some come up to even say that the child born is love's grave and these people only see the essence, but unable to fully see through the surface and point of view is on the halfway.
People call marriage as love's grave?
THREE REASONS of THREE IDIOTS
# 1#
They believe that when people get married, the special distance is shortened and the couple will expose their shortcomings that were hidden before tying of nuptial knot.
The notice of the other one's shortcomings makes love vanished. Therefore the marriage is love's grave is felt.
#2#
Some feel that it reveals couple different custom causes the failure of the marriage. As before, them not living together. When in love their habits and custom do not conflict with each other too much. However, when they get married, this difference will possibly conflict with each other, until love finally withers away.
#3#
Some call it as “Boring” with a belief that couples in love are so romantic, but when get married; they tend to worry about the daily necessities. Monotonous life for them with every day to day chore is so boring.
Love is suffered from this kind of boring daily life.
Apart from
1. “Shortcoming Exposure”
2. “Custom Conflict”
3. “Boring”.
According to me The “Shortcomings”, “Custom” and "Boring" are all superficial phenomena and what we can see; there is a deeper reason hidden behind.
Do you know why do these explanations only see the at first glance observable fact? This is for the reason that couple in love will possibly fall in love with the other one's shortcomings, therefore, the “Shortcoming Exposure” will be essentially on shaky ground; Similarly, couple in love will probably be together because of the different custom and will continue to love each other, which also explains that the “Custom Conflict” will not be acceptable; there are also many examples that people love each other in boring environments and love makes the boring life so charming. Hence “Boring” Theory also finds no place to justify its claim.
The very basis that love lost is the desertion of the feeling to respect love.
Marriages directly cause the vanishing of this feeling to respect & love. The vanishing of this feeling can start from one side or both sides at the same time.
The feeling to respect love refers to the feeling that one side "respects" the other one; this “Respect” is not a formula, but an affirmation of the other one's "Love Value".
The immediate outcome of marriage is the vanishing of the feeling to respect love. When living together, a couple find it pointless to surface respect the other one. The politeness is not necessary, the “Appreciation” that though comes from heart, but not straight and hence will therefore vanish and so will the blessed feeling; this finally grounds the vanishing of the feeling to respect love.
What perhaps we need to explain is that, the vanishing of the feeling to respect & love might be brought by different “explosive blend" in different families.
In some family it might be due to the “Shortcoming Exposure”, in another family it might be the “Custom Conflict”, or in another family it might be “Monotonous and Boring”.
Without the feeling to respect love, love no longer exists. As for the “Shortcoming Exposure”, “Personality and Custom's Differences”, “Life's Boredom” or so on.
It is rather an excuse than a kind of “explosive blend" to lead to the vanishing of love, an excuse found to explain the cause of the vanishing of love in order to deceive one own and others.
. . . Sanju
Sunday, November 22
Parts 6 -8: Jab Koi Mile
Part 6
parvati faints
KA:paro aunty!!!!! hello...kya hua aapko
PA:.......................................
KA:[to the man sseing whom paro fainted)aap hai kaun ..aur aap ko dekhkar ye iss tarah behosh kyun ho gayi????
the man:ji main inki beti ke pati ki paheli patni ke pita ke dost ke bete ke mama ke bhanje ka door ka rishtedar hoon
KA: accha......shayad isiliye ye behosh hui hai
paro gains her conciousness and says to tht man whose name is garv :tum yahan kya karne aaye ho????
GA:main to bas...
PA:ohh to tumhi ho jisne mere pati ki ye halat kardi..main tumhe chodungi nahi..kabhi maaf nahi karungi....arre tumhe main to kya bhagwaaan bhi maaf nahi karega....narak mein bhi jagah nahi milegi tujhe
GA:abe vhup....jab dekho dimag ka dahi karne mein lagi rehti hai....main to sirf doctor dikhane aaya hoon....wo kya hai na tumhare haath ke bane pohe kha liye the isiliye pet kharab ho gaya hai mera...........tumhare haath ka khana to bhagwaan kisi dushman ko bhi na khana pade..........ghar ka kaam to karna aata nahi hai chali hai office ki naiyya dubane...
PA:beta,........
GA:bhaag yahan se beta warna ye tera dimaag khatam karke hi rahegi...and runs away frm dere
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scene shifts to dr.kirti
kirti is checking her patients suddenly kumkum cumes to her cabin.....kirti's back is 2wards kumkum
KU:dr mere bete ko baccha lijiye...mere bete ko kisi ne goli maar di hai
KI;[turns].......
KU:[thak-thak.......the background score fr shock expresion.....den her face is shown in black and white and den negative....and den again a mantra....ya devi sarva.....somthing lyk tht]....a l'll later
KU:[to kirti] tum yahan????
KI:main yahan nahi to kahan hongi???
KU: antraa............
KI:santraaa...... main kya aapko santara bechne wali lagti hoon...aapko santara chahiye to cafeteria mein jaiye plss.....mera tym mat waste kariye
KU:arre tujh jaisi dayan se to main apne bete ka ilaaz kabhi na karvau
KI:excuse me!!!!
Part 7
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im skipping the kumkum part rite now and will add it sum other tym
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agn we go to the virani parivaar and now it's anjie and atuls turn to get harrassed by them
AT&AN at the nurse station
AT:aaj ka din kitna accha tha na anjie
AN:yeah but not for very long.......
AT:kya hua anjali..
anjali points 2wards the virani family and atul says.."arre ye morcha wale andar kaise aa gaye sanjeevani mein to allowed nahi hai"
AN:ye morcha wale nahi VIRAANI parivaar hai shanti niketan wale jinke ghar mein aaj tak shanti nahi aayi hai...ek aayi thi[mandira of shanti fame] uska bhi plastic surgery karwa ke badal liye...
AT:oh no......
AN:oh yeah
suddenly dey see tulsi coming 2wards dem
tulsi to anjie and atul
TU:beta dekho na mere pati ko kya ho gaya???
AT:arre aap ke pati ko kya ho sakta hai........unhono ne hi to dusron ke patiyon ko sikhaya hai mar kar kaise wapas aaya jata hai....
TU:haan beta bas mere pati ko bacha lo
AT:arre aapke pati to jalane ke baad bhi zinda wapas aa gaye the toh abhi to wo bas behosh hue hai..chinta mat kariye aunty unhe kuch nahi hoga....bas apne backgroud music aur mantro ko strong rakhiye ga
TU:wipes her tears lyk a 1960's heroine ,......and den says beta bhagwaan tumhe lambi umar de
AT:[to anjie]ye mujhe baar baar beta beta kyun keh rahi hai........abhi mera future start bhi nahi hua mera ek past bana ke rakh degi..kya pata yehi na keh baithe ki main iska beta hoon aur hospital mein badal gaya tha
mihir ko hosh aane lagta hai
TU:mihir......mihir....mihir...tum aa gaye mihir
MI:haan tulsi tumhe kya laga tha main itni jaldi mar jaunga ...abhi to baa ka hi number nahi aaya to humari to baat hi kuch aur hai
TU:mihir.....[tere bin starts to play]
suddenly prerna cumes in and says..."mr bajaj ye kya hua aapko"
MI:kuch nahi wo bas.....
PR:kuch nahi...agar aap ko kuch ho jaata toh...aapne socha hai mera kya hota ./..kaise jeeti main....aur aap ke bachon ka kya hota?????
MI:relax prerna.....im f9..aur waise bhi agar mujhe kuch ho bhi jata to anurag hai na second option....waise bhi itne saalon se kuwara baitha hai ab mujhse uska ye sukh aur nahi dekha jata
tabhi premlata also cumes[she is prachi's mother of kayamath]
PRE:prachi ke papa ye kya hua aapko???
MI:kuch nahi wo bas thodi si weakness ho gayi thi...
PRE:kya thodi si...maine kitni baar kaha hai aap jyada der tak virani parivaar mein mat raha kariye......shantiniketan ka hawapani theek nahi hai...yaha to zyada der rukne se insaan ki tabiyat kharab ho jaati hai....
TU:ei premlata zyada bak bak mat kar...dekh humne pehle hi deal final kar li thi ki 2din tere saath rehenge 2 din prerna ke saath aur do din mere saath aur 1 din rest karenge phir ye faltu ka drama kyun kar rahi hai...waise bhi tum dono ki jodi kuch khas jamti nahi hai
PRE:to kya hua??ye mere pati hai..mera farz banta hai inka dhyaan rakhna
TU: tumhare pati hai aur humare kya bhai hai...humare bhi pati utne hi hai jitne ki tumhare
PR:haan tulsi ji bilkul theek keh rahi hai
PRE:dekhiye ye mere saath hamesha rahe hai..kabhi mujhe nahi chora lekin aap logo ko to 20-20 saal ke liye chora bhi hai aur balaji ki kripa rahi to phir 20 saal ke liye chor denge
TU:premlata...[thakthak.......hare ram hare ram mantra starts to play]
PRE:chilao mat
TU:kyun na chilao..mujhe chillane ke paise milte hai
PRE:to chillao mera kya jata hai log tumhe hi pagal samjhenge......!!!!!!
in the meanwhile dr.shashank came in and says "ye sab kya ho raha hai yahan"
PRE:arre replacement se pehle wale prachi ke papa aap yahan kya kar rahe hai.....aap ka payment bhi to abhi baaki hai....
SH:excuse me!!!!!!
Part 8 :
SH:excuse me!!!!
PRE:arre kya excuse me....aap bhi na jane dijiye aapse to baat hi karna bekaar hai....kaha mujhe pehle kaha gaya tha ki ek lambe[loooking at shash] ...chaude handsome aadmi ki patni banna hai lekin phir kuch hi dino baad pakda diya ek thignu....hey bhagwaaan
TU:ei premlata khabardar jo mere devta saman pati ki beijjati ki to
PRE:kahe ka devta...devta hota to desh ki unnati ke bvaare mein sochta???
TU:ab mihir ne desh ke saath kya kia??
PRE:itne saare bache paida karke desh ki waatt lagadali aur tum kehti ho ki kiya hai issne????
AT&AN:kya???
PRE:arre haan...iske 4-5 bacche tulsi se hai..2-4 mujhse aur 9-10 prerna se........isse zyada bhi ho sakte hai agar balaji ki kripa humpar toh........
aur do char to najayaz bacche bhi hai...mujhe to shak hai kahi har sehar mein inke 2-4 bacche to hinge hi zaroor
shashank who is listening to all dis says ki "thnk god main mihir bajaj ya prachi ka papa nahi hoon"
to mihir very confidently says.."mihir bajaj prachi ke papa hone ke liye u need a lot of stamina.........confidence and smartness to handle these kekta ladies....."
MI:[to shash]...tera to accha hai kiya sanjeevani mein smriti ke saath romance kiya ab padma pe line maar raha hai....
SH:shnnnn...kya kar raha hai bacho ke samne poll mat khol
MI:abe chod na inhe kaha kuch samajh aata hai....accha ye bata teri padma ke saath setting hui kya
SH:nahi yaar wo to mujhe ghaas hi nahi deti
MI:arre maine to socha tha ki tu usse shaadi karna chahta hai.....mujhe nahi pata tha ki tu usse ghaas kareedne ke liye use itna bhaav de raha hai
Love.,
Diks..!
Guys.. i thought i will end it.. but bcoz of someone really special.. I am continuing it..! and plsssssss comment!! please!!
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